[分享]清真上海
Knowing likes his blog perhaps because of all the references to Shanghai? SOAB, I don't miss the food and hangouts, not any more, and I ain't no Shanghainese myself, but I miss my grandmother. Of course they had been thrown out of the waterfront district long ago. Nothing is left outside of my head.
看完了好象他写的越穷越旧越温暖,连湖羊都受了富庶的连累。唐鲁孙写的湖羊,貌似非常香烂浓,我向往了这些年。
说了半天,也没说那碗面到底多好吃。我在兰州吃的拉面,真的是非常好吃的,肉有味,面也有味。兰州也没穷到那样罢?我记得只有兰州的黄河水是清的。
上海的清真馆不知道,香港有一间叫“清真牛肉馆“,在九龙城,黄珍珍对面。滚烫的牛肉馅饼香极了。咖喱牛肉也十分好吃。还有一间是个清真老板开的烧味铺,卖油鸡烧鸭,咖喱牛羊肉,在坚拿道鹅颈桥街市熟食档。烧鸭子很好。
所以我充满留恋的城市是香港,高楼大厦自顾起着,脚下的历史是连续的,在中环,破破烂烂挤满人的麦仁记云吞店,冷气都没有的九记牛腩,往下是高级饭店镛记,沿着斜坡往下走一点就是灯火灿烂的轩尼诗道。多么生动无限暇思的地方。从高级白领到小市民,人人都有相对稳定的生存空间。
说了半天,也没说那碗面到底多好吃。我在兰州吃的拉面,真的是非常好吃的,肉有味,面也有味。兰州也没穷到那样罢?我记得只有兰州的黄河水是清的。
上海的清真馆不知道,香港有一间叫“清真牛肉馆“,在九龙城,黄珍珍对面。滚烫的牛肉馅饼香极了。咖喱牛肉也十分好吃。还有一间是个清真老板开的烧味铺,卖油鸡烧鸭,咖喱牛羊肉,在坚拿道鹅颈桥街市熟食档。烧鸭子很好。
所以我充满留恋的城市是香港,高楼大厦自顾起着,脚下的历史是连续的,在中环,破破烂烂挤满人的麦仁记云吞店,冷气都没有的九记牛腩,往下是高级饭店镛记,沿着斜坡往下走一点就是灯火灿烂的轩尼诗道。多么生动无限暇思的地方。从高级白领到小市民,人人都有相对稳定的生存空间。
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One-night stands in heterosexual relationships carry a different significance from those in a homosexual male relationships, and the difference may be fundamental.
Homosexual men do not have any reason to either demand or expect faithfulness in a relationship. Any stability in the relationship is sentimental and nonbiological (as far as I can tell).
A heterosexual relationship has inherent biological reasons to demand a certain level of sexual fidelity, because of the need to guarantee 1) the offsprings carry the male partner's own genes, and 2) the male partner's commitment to maximize the survival of the offsprings and the female partner. So both partners expect and demand sexual fidelity while both are driven also by the conflicting need to seek better genes to mix with their own -- therefore to poke around for "someone better." The tension and contradiction lead to people's love-hate attitude about infidelity in relationships.
I have NO IDEA what kind of expectations and tendencies dominate lesbian relationships. Theoretically there is no sharing of genetic materials and therefore no biological motive for the non-child-bearing partner to care, but both partners CAN produce offsprings, unlike homosexual men who are at least not easily "reproducible." So it's a mystery to me.
Homosexual men do not have any reason to either demand or expect faithfulness in a relationship. Any stability in the relationship is sentimental and nonbiological (as far as I can tell).
A heterosexual relationship has inherent biological reasons to demand a certain level of sexual fidelity, because of the need to guarantee 1) the offsprings carry the male partner's own genes, and 2) the male partner's commitment to maximize the survival of the offsprings and the female partner. So both partners expect and demand sexual fidelity while both are driven also by the conflicting need to seek better genes to mix with their own -- therefore to poke around for "someone better." The tension and contradiction lead to people's love-hate attitude about infidelity in relationships.
I have NO IDEA what kind of expectations and tendencies dominate lesbian relationships. Theoretically there is no sharing of genetic materials and therefore no biological motive for the non-child-bearing partner to care, but both partners CAN produce offsprings, unlike homosexual men who are at least not easily "reproducible." So it's a mystery to me.
花生酱拌的不如芝麻酱拌的好吃,就是差着那么一点劲儿。火星狗 wrote:这两位貌似没那么庸俗, 好像还很有精神追求,至少花生酱拌凉面这种题材和同性恋一点关系都没有!他们大概只在乎有多少同志上他们的博,如果住得近还可以勾勾搭搭。
不过他们万一看到中年妇女叽叽咕咕大概会很烦,就好像我们(或者少数落后分子包括我自己)万一看到男的在这边发言会很烦。
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晚上下雨,街上一个人没有,特别想念香港或者广州,从楼里一走到街上,扑面而来的红尘气息。张爱玲说的,”市声”。在这种时候,经过一辆电车都觉得特别欢快。
不是人口稠密到一定程度的城市(所谓的现代化程度倒是次要的),没有这种愉快温暖的烟火感。
不是人口稠密到一定程度的城市(所谓的现代化程度倒是次要的),没有这种愉快温暖的烟火感。
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既然小粉丝嘴脸已经暴露出来了,也不介意在多暴露一点。
最近两篇写乡镇游的挺好看,前一篇还残存着批判现实主义的愤青精神,后一篇完全放松下来了。我文艺的说,后一篇的氛围像是做梦,冬天的好晴天在外面晒太阳睡着了然后做的慢悠悠懒洋洋的梦。看来旅游有助于释放怨天尤人的情绪,街道政治应该多多去旅游。
关于一夜情这个炸弹问题,我老实承认,我一开始看得时候还是有点激动的,毕竟是我毫无了解的新领域。后来就无所谓,看到他写也不过是很漠然的想这家伙又出去搞了。说到底一夜情并不是我感兴趣的话题(这句话好像撇清……),这世界上有些事情了解了也就算了,有些事情了解了还想参与进去。而且街道的好也不在这个地方。
最近两篇写乡镇游的挺好看,前一篇还残存着批判现实主义的愤青精神,后一篇完全放松下来了。我文艺的说,后一篇的氛围像是做梦,冬天的好晴天在外面晒太阳睡着了然后做的慢悠悠懒洋洋的梦。看来旅游有助于释放怨天尤人的情绪,街道政治应该多多去旅游。
我看也是闹别扭了。不过街道一向大有水仙美青年的自怜自爱的作派。后面还有个小粉丝问他能不能把自己保存的文章打印下来,那个回答真是BH啊。“关了,不许联想,也不许哭. ”
关于一夜情这个炸弹问题,我老实承认,我一开始看得时候还是有点激动的,毕竟是我毫无了解的新领域。后来就无所谓,看到他写也不过是很漠然的想这家伙又出去搞了。说到底一夜情并不是我感兴趣的话题(这句话好像撇清……),这世界上有些事情了解了也就算了,有些事情了解了还想参与进去。而且街道的好也不在这个地方。